Saturday, December 26, 2015

Merry Christmas Plus One: Live Like an Artist














Big extended family gathering of 17 of us yesterday in El Cerrito. Laila baked our family recipe of shortbread, which Dylan loves, and Sarah found me a box of frozen Scottish meat pies, one of which I had for breakfast today. So peppery, just as I remember from over 60 years ago in Royal Oak.

Meanwhile, Loic's Mom made us pork roast, potatoes au gratin, and ratatouille, followed by the French tradition of 13 desserts, which we figured out dates to the last meal of Christ.

The most amazing thing about dinner was Dylan eating up the ratatouille, because he claims to hate vegetables.

As I grow older, and sit watching my six children and six grandchildren (to date) interact, I am struck by the richness of their inter-relationships. And how unique every one of us turns out to be, on this planet.

Nothing lasts, certainly no person lasts. All we have are these special moments, while we are here. Life is so precious, yet we take it for granted. Maybe that is a survival skill in and of itself. If we thought too hard about our inevitable demise, we might act in impetuous and dangerous ways.

Like an artist.

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Thursday, December 24, 2015

Reflecting

It's Christmas Eve and I am busy wrapping presents for my six children and six grandchildren. We had some much needed rain overnight and I am hoping more is on the way, here in thirsty California.

Life is far too short. Another old friend of mine died this morning, in Berkeley.

As I package up these gifts, which I hope will bring some joy to the 12, I am also thinking about how to best pass on family legacies, such as the things my parents left me.

I do not want it to seem odd but I think I would like to give each of my kids a piece of woodwork tomorrow from my Dad. They are boxes and candlesticks.

What do you think?

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