Saturday, March 26, 2022

Afghan Conversation 27: Land of Trapped Girls

 This is the latest in a series of conversations I have been having with an Afghan friend since the Taliban took power last year. I am not revealing his identity out of concern for his safety.

Dear David:

Since the Taliban took control of Afghanistan, they’ve consistently banned secondary schooling for girls. Recently they suddenly announced that girls would be allowed to go to secondary school,  but then quickly rescinded that announcement.

Let me describe the situation for girls in rural Helmand province, which is typical of most of Afghanistan.

On a recent trip to one of Helmand's districts called Sangin, I talked with many people and asked them to describe their lives. A young man who appeared to be in his late twenties told me about his family. His father had two wives, and 15 children, six  girls and nine boys. None of them are educated. 

The young man said that there is not any active school in their village, but one former school, now a damaged skeleton of a building, that is occupied by the Taliban. The Talibs tell the people of the village that if they send their children to school they will become infidels. The people believe them so they send their sons not to school but to the seminary. No one talks about the girls going to school because it is considered shameful to even talk about women there. 

Women have no rights in Helmand. A woman is considered to be her husband's possession. If a suitor comes for a girl, she has no right to accept or reject him, she must submit to whatever her father decides. The groom is expected to pay between $10,000 - $20,000 to his father-in-law, which in Afghanistan is an enormous sum of money.

Sometimes, girls are sold as second or third wives for large sums of money, even if the man is very old. When a girl goes to her husband's house, she has no right to protest her situation. Nor can she get a divorce. If she protests against her conditions, she will be beaten. Outside of the home, her name is never even spoken.

The Taliban are using the issue of improving the lives of girls as a weapon to try and get the rest of the world to recognize them as the legitimate rulers of Afghanistan. The girls are pawns in this game.

Meanwhile, the progress made before the Taliban took over has been reversed and now girls are trapped in their homes. They have little hope that the situation will improve anytime soon.

Today’s News (43)

  1. Biden travels to Poland as the country struggles with Ukrainian refugee influx (NBC)

  2. Biden meets Polish leader on NATO’s eastern flank (WP)

  3. Biden’s Poland Visit to Underline Backing for Ukraine (WSJ)

  4. Russia's army says the first phase of its military campaign in Ukraine is over. It will now focus its efforts on the eastern Donbas region, it says, which contains two pro-Russian breakaway republics. Western officials believe the announcement implies that Moscow knows its pre-war strategy has failed. (BBC)

  5. U.S., EU strike LNG deal as Europe seeks to cut Russian gas (Reuters)

  6. Ukraine tells Russia 'die or surrender' as its Kyiv counterattack pushes back invaders (NBC)

  7. Ukrainian troops are recapturing towns east of Kyiv and Russian forces who had been trying to seize the capital are falling back on overextended supply lines, Britain said, one of the strongest indications yet of a shift in momentum in the war. (Reuters)

  8. Ukraine says 300 died in theater attack, hunger grips cities (AP)

  9. Ukrainian Refugees Find Easier Path to Enter U.S. at the Mexican Border (WSJ)

  10. How the false Russian biolab story came to circulate among the U.S. far right (NPR)

  11. Russians have rushed to stock up on anti-depressants, sleeping pills and contraceptives among other products since the conflict in Ukraine began, with people buying a month's worth of medicine in just two weeks. (Reuters)

  12. Biden and his allies vow to take a tougher stance; Ukraine counteroffensive enters its second week (NYT)

  13. War in Ukraine could lead to food riots in poor countries, warns WTO boss (Guardian)

  14. Russian precision-guided missiles are failing up to 60% of the time in Ukraine, three U.S. officials with knowledge of intelligence on the issue told Reuters, a possible explanation for the poor progress of Russia's invasion. (Reuters)

  15. Europe wants to cut Russian energy. Climate policies can help. (WP)

  16. Biden Embraces Longstanding U.S. Nuclear Weapons Policy Amid Pressure From Allies (WSJ)

  17. Russia states more limited war goal to 'liberate' Donbass (Reuters)

  18. Ukraine claims that Russia is using white phosphorus (WP)

  19. Too big to fail': White House careful not to target food companies as it pressures Putin (Politico)

  20. Russia in push to take control of Mariupol (NHK)

  21. VIDEO: NATO Braces for Russian Biological, Chemical or Nuclear Threats (Reuters)

  22. How US is expanding aid to Ukrainian refugees (AP)

  23. Ukrainian military clarifies which Russian landing ship it destroyed (The Hill)

  24. NATO unite behind Ukraine at Brussels summit (Reuters)

  25. Some prominent Russians quit jobs, refuse to support war (AP)

  26. VIDEO: ‘Is There Shooting Here?’ Ukrainians Find Refuge in Moldova (NYT)

  27. Finland's national railway operator will suspend services between Helsinki and Saint Petersburg in Russia on Monday, closing one of the last public transport routes to the European Union for Russians. (Reuters)

  28. Putin’s war in Ukraine nearing possibly more dangerous phase (AP)

  29. China threat to Taiwan highlighted by Ukraine war, warns US admiral (Financial Times)

  30. Manchin says he will vote for Supreme Court nominee Ketanji Brown Jackson (CNN)

  31. Rep. Mo Brooks (R-Ala.), who helped inspire Trump supporters to storm the Capitol on Jan. 6, said Trump “always brings up ‘We got to rescind the election. We got to take Joe Biden out and put me in now.’” Trump on Wednesday said he was withdrawing his endorsement of Brooks in his Alabama Senate race because the lawmaker had stopped calling for tossing out Biden's presidential victory. [HuffPost]

  32. Ginni Thomas reportedly pressed Trump's chief of staff on overturning the election (NPR)

  33. Ginni Thomas, wife of Supreme Court Justice Clarence Thomas, sent nearly two dozen text messages urging former White House chief of staff Mark Meadows to aggressively move to overturn the 2020 presidential election. “The majority knows Biden and the Left is attempting the greatest Heist of our History," she wrote. Meadows has turned in a total of 2,230 messages to the House select committee investigating the Jan. 6, 2021, attack on the U.S. Capitol. [HuffPost]

  34. A group of Georgia voters asked state officials to block Republican Representative Marjorie Taylor Greene from running for reelection, alleging she is unfit for office because of her support of rioters who attacked the Capitol. (Reuters)

  35. A Bomb Crater as Business Partner for a Pit Stop on an Afghan Highway (NYT)

  36. India said ties with China could not be normal until their troops pulled back from each other on the disputed border, but Beijing struck a conciliatory note during a meeting of their foreign ministers in New Delhi. (Reuters)

  37. Satellite data shows entire Conger ice shelf has collapsed in Antarctica (Guardian)

  38. A coalition of four Native American tribes is lobbying for the establishment of a sweeping new national monument surrounding a Navy bombing range in central Nevada in order to permanently protect the area’s cultural and natural resources. The Numu Newe National Monument would span nearly 3 million acres of federal lands that are the ancestral home of the Paiute and Shoshone people, and would be the largest national monument on land. [HuffPost]

  39. Cities Lost Population in 2021, Leading to the Slowest Year of Growth in U.S. History (NYT)

  40. Kit Daniels, a longtime employee for the conspiracy website Infowars, broke down in tears during a deposition when he was confronted with the damage his article misidentifying the Parkland school shooter allegedly caused. His testimony reveals the rickety ethical workings of the conspiracy outlet. [HuffPost]

  41. POLITICO-Harvard poll: 40 percent of parents believe masks at school harmed their kids (Politico)

  42. Paralyzed man with brain chip says first words in months: ‘I want a beer’ (NY Post)

  43. Ant Flees Across State Line Carrying Big Crumb (The Onion)

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