When I was growing up, many parents advised their children to focus on a career by a certain age (12ish), and some kids responded well to that advice. Back then, the major predictor of a man’s eventual career was what his father did.
With women, the path was less direct, if only because many girls had not grown up with career women as Moms. And most women’s careers became infinitely more complicated simply by birthing children.
There was no maternal, let alone parental, leave in those days.
But then again, that was then. Sometimes it is hard to remember that the world I grew up and into has crumbled, shattered and split up into a world where much has changed.
Now the main role models for kids are those in their 20s and 30s.
Somewhere along the line, raising children the best as I could, I may have mentioned art as a career. I’m not sure why I would have done that. Art is not really a career; it is about seeing, imagining something else than the way things are.
It's also about taking risks and being an outsider at times, looking in.
As I’ve aged, I’ve stopped giving career advice to my kids, and more recently, my grandkids. They deserve to make their own choices.
And it’s our obligation to listen to them and hear what they are saying.
(“Earth” by Julia Matthiessen Weir. This painting was exhibited in a San Francisco gallery briefly in 2022 but it is not for sale.)
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