Thursday, December 11, 2025

Words

Sticks and stones may break my bones
But words shall never hurt me.
 — children’s rhyme

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That old kids’ rhyme may still be an effective retort to verbal bullies but it is not true in a literal sense. Words hurt, of course, and they hurt relentlessly, cruelly and sometimes irreversibly.

On the other hand, words also can bring pleasure as surely as food, drink, stories and sex.

Thus for many of us, word games are among our favorite daily habits.

The venerable Scrabble and the addictive Wordle are two of my personal favorites. For years, two of my sons competed in “Words With Friends.”

And then there are Semantle, DordleQuordle, Octordle, Nerdle, and hello wordl, among many others.

Josh Wardle, the creator of Wordle says “What’s fun about Wordle, I think, is what you can tease out, based on what you know about language. What the word should be.”

Some of what goes wrong in our national and international dialogues can be traced to words and what they should mean. Political and military opponents often seem to be talking right past each other.

Certainly this is the case between Russia and Ukraine and in the Middle East.

But back to Wordle, where I’ve won 97 percent of the time, which is fairly good but not great.

During my recent trip to Arizona to visit my three sisters, one revealing moment found all four of us drinking coffee or tea and playing Wordle at the same time.

It must be in the genes.

(This is from 2022.)

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