“Did I not warn you? People hate a happy woman.” — “The Idea of You”
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Something that has puzzled me this election season is the criticism of Kamala Harris’s giggle, and how it seemingly turns some people off more than Donald Trump’s hideous scowl. Why is this?
Recently, I may have found the answer to that question in, of all places, a sweet little film called “The Idea of You,” in which a 40ish divorced mother named Solène (Anne Hathaway) falls in love with a much younger pop singer named Hayes (Nicholas Galitzine).
Like most good Hollywood romances, the storyline of the movie is certainly improbable. The two meet by accident backstage before a concert and their mutual attraction is immediately obvious to both of them and to us.
When Hayes pursues her with a boyishly awkward seduction attempt, against her better instincts Solène allows herself to be drawn into this impossible affair, which leads to an erotic rendezvous in New York followed by an extended magical mystery tour with Hayes’ band in Europe. The couple believe their relationship will stay secret, but in several reckless moments at a beach and in a cafe they are surreptitiously photographed, and those photographs will soon surface on the Internet.
All hell breaks loose when they do, ultimately dooming any small chance their relationship ever had in the first place and they sadly must part ways.
“If the roles were reversed, do you think anyone else would give a shit?” Hayes asks, quasi-rhetorically at one point in the film. Solène later utters the key line in what was reportedly an improv that Hathaway came up with on set: “I didn’t know my being happy would piss so many people off.”
And that in a nutshell may be part of the dilemma facing Kamala Harris and her team — how to let her show off her natural self, which includes the giggle and lots of smiles, without triggering what is quite clearly a deep-set impulse among members of the public to mistrust female joy.
One of the most useful things I have learned over a long lifetime of trying to overcome my own internalized biases, such as sexism, racism or homophobia, is that we first have to become conscious we have them, then strive purposely to move forward leaving them behind.
That is one of the major challenges now facing those Americans resistant to electing our first female president. The contrast between Harris and her opponent couldn’t be greater on many, many levels, but the contrasting emotions they elicit — of joy/hope/positivity vs. hate/fear/anger — is contributing to a gender gap among voters.
And that gap appears to be reaching historic proportions this election cycle.
Of course, when it comes to this type of political drama, we’ve all seen the movie before, in 2016, when Hillary Clinton played the lead role against the same bad guy. That movie had an unhappy ending, so can this one turn out differently?
Well, sometimes in life, as in movies, when enough time has passed and we are lucky, we get another chance at happiness or love or to just to do the right damn thing, like vote into office our first woman president.
And as to what happens at the conclusion of “The Idea of You,” you’ll just have to watch the movie.
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